he showed up stand by lunchtime. computer glitch reservations messed up so he got sandwich bag lunch. another hen died. he came to seniors a great sign. so I stopped his obsessing reminding him a new life requires a new him. if I can save him 10 minutes of self torture it's worth it. I sat with him 3 hours letting him know he doesn't have to entertain me or waste his energy on the past. he has choices. he's not doomed unless he chooses the past which he has a perfect right to choose. not everyone wants happiness. it's a free country.
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